Summary: One of the frequent problems with those who are my readers and clients when it comes to operate and thrive, is the lack of confidence in themselves. This article help you to overcome this feeling that paralyzes you and will not let you achieve what you propose. We can say that the lack of self confidence is like a nagging emotion that us blocks in decision and action. -Low self-esteem – terms, – low self-confidence – and insecurity – are also related to this state of mind. Sometimes us emerges any good idea or project, and we are going to push it but ops!, is that in our March suddenly we feel that ugly thing as stitch in the stomach that us blocks and not let us move forward. Sometimes even allows us to begin. When we do not have confidence in ourselves, we feel insecure and everything we do becomes more complicated and we paralyze us in action. This can happen us in different situations as for example: If we’re looking for a job and have to attend one job interview, if we need to solve conflict in the relationships we have with people around us, if we want to achieve a goal or pending project for some time, if we want to find the love of a couple, among other white => _ stuffed. If we listened carefully the thoughts that become in those moments in our minds, we could hear something like: I don’t know if I can do it and if something bad happens to me? I’m afraid of failing and if reject me, I do not approve or all quit different from what I hope? I will accept? And what do I do if say me NO?What I have I liked by the other? I better not do anything, so as I am I’m fine and comfortable why change? do you sound? There is a scheme of words that I almost always mention in my articles and is as follows: => EMOTIONS thoughts or MOODS States => action keep in mind that what you’re thinking influences negative or positively in your actions because there born predisposition to do something or not, and in a certain way.